Friday at the mall with 3 kids
Friday was pro-d day and I decided to get the kids out of the house for a little while, doing something we don’t normally do. For a lot of people going to the mall is a normal, regular thing, but for the kids - especially the girls - it’s still a huge novelty to get to go to the mall. I warned them that it was Black Friday so if it was too crazy we’d be leaving, because I didn’t actually want to go for Black Friday sales (I like deals, but I don’t like crowds!) It turned out that while we were there, the mall was no busier than it would normally be, and I scored Andrew’s Christmas shirt at 50% off.
After getting the shirt we went to a hair salon to see if all 3 kids could get in for a haircut, and it worked out that they could get in right away. I’ve cut the girls’ bangs but this was their very first ever actual haircut, so it was kind of a big deal. Neither of them wanted a lot cut off, because they love growing their ‘princess hair,’ although I think I have them convinced that next time, in a couple of months, they’ll get a shorter cut maybe up to their shoulders. Emily’s is slightly shorter than Margaret’s but ultimately it was just an inch and a half or so ‘trim.’ It’s really noticeable to me though, as it’s more of a blunt cut and Emily’s doesn’t curl at the bottom like it did before. They look a little more grown up, and of course totally adorable. Andrew also got a really cool new ‘do, and was quite pleased with himself. I had only planned on the girls getting their hair done, but then when we got there I realized that Andrew could use a bit of a clean up of his, so I’m glad we got that done, too, before pictures with Santa (which we’ll be getting this week). I also really liked one of the hairdressers in particular, so we’ll definitely be going back to see her.
It was ‘Feel Good Friday’ at the mall, and as part of that they had a DJ spinning music and a man set up drawing caricatures. It was free, which was awesome, and the kids REALLY wanted to get drawn, so we got in line for that and I was AMAZED by how patiently the kids waited their turn. There were about 6 people ahead of us in the lineup so it took quite a while, but the kids didn’t complain at all and were so good about staying right by me. They got really cool pictures drawn, each separately because they wanted to be able to keep their own pictures. Andrew is Iron Man and I love it because it really does look like his face! Then Emily was drawn (as a Princess), and I could tell it was her being drawn and not Margaret (who got hers drawn like a Fairy), even though they were sitting side by side. A woman waiting in line behind us annoyed me a bit with her comment that I should just ‘photocopy her picture and give it to her sister because they’re the same, anyway, so why bother with another picture?!’ Ummm, yeah, no. First of all, that’s ridiculous. Second, they obviously want their own pictures. And third, and really most importantly, THEY DON’T EVEN LOOK THE SAME! LOL. They’re not identical, and even if they were, they’re still individual people! Geez. It really amazes me sometimes how people treat twins as if they’re just one person. I know it was just a comment and really it didn’t bug me that much, she wasn’t intentionally trying to be rude, it’s just that she WAS serious and that was kind of annoying to me!
Anyway. It ended up being an absolutely PERFECT outing and I LOVE it when that happens because it feels like a huge success when I can take all 3 kids out on my own and have a completely pleasant experience. It actually can happen!! And I just love it when we’re all in good moods and enjoying an adventure like that together.
Today James went and had their caricatures laminated, and they’re now all hanging on the kids’ walls by their beds. Super cute! I’m so glad we went out when we did and got to have that whole experience. Andrew's going to have high expectations on his next pro-d day!!