I can't believe summer holidays are over!
I did a bit of writing over the summer, but clearly not much on the blog. I’ve got to get more into the habit of it. I do have notes jotted down for most days the past few months (actually, most of this year thanks to my planner!) to remind myself of what we were up to, but the little-r details get left out when I do that, and I wish I could capture so much more than I do to remember in the future.
It was a pretty good summer. It obviously started off rocky with losing Fiona, and I still think about her every day and feel sad knowing she’s gone. It’s gotten easier but it still feels heavy to think about. I wish so much that she was still here with us. I still think I see or hear her pretty much daily. Maybe not as much as in the beginning, but it’s still noticeable for sure. Poor Fifi. I better stop thinking about her right now or I could cry.
In terms of outings and activities, we accomplished everything from our bucket list and more this summer, so I have to say it was a success. I still feel like it wasn’t as long of a summer as I would like, though. We lost so much of July due to poor weather, it didn’t turn out to be the hot, hot summer that I was so sure we were going to have. I found on the hotter days I really did take advantage and enjoyed sitting outside directly in the sun, never for a really long time since I know it’s not healthy to get too much, but I really lapped up the rays this year. I just wish there had been more of them!
About a week and a half ago it very suddenly went from being hot and summery to cool and very fall-like. I kept thinking summer would come back but it hasn’t, and even if we have sunshine now it’s very obviously cooler. Summer really is gone, and I can’t help but feel a bit of a sadness creep in at the thought of how long it will be before we have it back again. It’s known as the ‘wet coast’ for a reason, and I’m someone who would prefer if it was summer all year round.
That being said, I know I WILL eventually embrace the fall. I just wish we could have eased into it a little slower.
On the first day that the rainy/cooler weather started, Margaret came down with a cold. It was the beginning of the last full week of summer break, and it sucked knowing we wouldn’t really be able to do much, but at least it happened when the weather wasn’t nice enough for us to do anything outdoors anyway. I had hoped the weather would improve for Labour Day weekend, and it did here and there but it still wasn’t nice enough to do much. Margaret’s cold continued to linger, and by Saturday night Andrew was coming down with it. We did manage to get the girls out to Piper’s Spit for a walk along the little boardwalk there to see the ducks, and we also saw some huge fish in the water, and checked out the little Nature House at the entrance to it.
Yesterday, for the last day before school started up again, we surprised the kids by taking them to the Spirit Halloween store. I was so excited to be taking them there when they didn’t know where we were going, but I should have known not to blow my excitement out of proportion because you know it’s often the case that you think your kids are going to react to something a certain way and then they totally don’t. This was one of those times! Andrew told me afterwards that he really WAS excited but he sure didn’t act like it, despite having been asking me every single day for weeks when the Halloween stores would be open. By the time we got into the store he had decided it was all too scary (even though he LOVES all things creepy and Halloween-y!) so he just followed me around, grabbing onto me and protesting if I went anywhere remotely near the creepy displays. (The girls loved it though, especially Margaret - the creepier the better for her!)
Andrew didn’t even seem to enjoy looking at the costumes, at least not like I thought he would have, even though he knew we were there to pick his out. He did decide to try on a hazmat zombie costume, that he’d been eyeing up online for a while. But it was $50 for a really cheap looking suit, and I’d read a lot of bad reviews about the mask, which we weren’t even allowed to take out of the package ‘for hygienic reasons.’ Luckily he agreed that we should look at other options, and he ended up picking out an Evil Jester costume that he actually had considered last year as well but we hadn’t ever found it in store. I had a 20% off coupon which brought the price down to $40 (tax included), which still seems steep for what you get but wow, Halloween is really big business. It’s crazy, actually, especially when you have two other children to consider!
The girls were kind of upset when they realized they weren’t getting anything at that store. It’s just that the prices were crazy for any of the costumes they had their eyes on. And I also have to say no to so many of the costumes they like because they’re little dresses with no sleeves that won’t work AT ALL in our climate on Halloween night! If we lived somewhere tropical, no problem, but a shimmery pink Minnie Mouse dress, while cute, is not going to look good with a jacket stuffed underneath it! Although I’ll admit their little witch costumes from last year have short sleeves also, but because they’re black I can better work with putting their jackets underneath because it’s easy to get a black long sleeved shirt to go on top of the jacket to make it look like the dress just has long sleeves.
Anyway...after also checking out the Disney store and (not surprisingly) finding out that the prices on all their costumes were ridiculous as well, I think I managed to convince the girls to re-wear their witch costumes again this year. They’re super cute, and now that they’re a year older they also appreciate the light-up skirt feature a little more, so they seem excited to be wearing them again. And I’m excited that I might actually be able to afford to buy them some new fall/winter clothes with the money I’ll save buying those extra costumes!!
All in all it wasn’t the best outing ever, but that’s just sometimes how it goes. I’m glad Andrew got his costume though, and that we don’t have to think too much about Halloween now until closer to the time. Oh, who am I kidding...the kids are going to be asking to decorate within a couple of weeks, and when the neighbours start putting their decorations out we’re going to have to get our closet full of stuff out and start our insane decorating once again! I do get excited about it...I think it’s just hard right now because I’m really wishing summer was still close enough to hold onto. I’m mourning the loss!
It’s also tough getting back into the swing of the school routine. Yesterday was Andrew’s first day of grade 2 (except not really, which I find kind of puts a damper on the whole thing, too, because his school literally takes this entire WEEK to figure out who’s in what class. I personally find this annoying and ridiculous. But anyway...I know they have their reasons for doing it. I just find the first day of school doesn’t have the same excitement when the kids know they don’t really start for another week.
All in all, it was a great summer, I just wish it didn’t have to end!